Talk with Nitishika Pandey

Q1. Which do you prioritize more in your decision-making: Following your heart or using your brain?

Nitishika: I let my logical brain lead me 85% of the time, while I listen to my heart
for the remaining 15%. It’s like my brain is the CEO and my heart is the
quirky consultant who occasionally pops in with wild ideas.

 

Q2. Name one skill that you think everyone should learn.

Nitishika: Not giving yourself an option; it’s about doing what you are meant to do.
Think of it as Percy Jackson using Riptide, you just have to wield your tasks with
confidence and get things done! .

 

Q3. What is something that truly scares you?

Nitishika: What truly scares me is my own potential for self-doubt and selfsabotage. Sometimes my inner critic could give horror movies a run for their
money.

 

Q4. Define yourself in five words.

Nitishika: Reader, Procrastinator, Logical, Private, and a Dreamer.

 

Q5. How do you stay focused?

Nitishika: Deadlines are like caffeine for my brain—they keep me wired and on
track. Without them, I’d probably end up binge-watching cat videos all day.
Nothing like the fear of failure to keep you laser-focused!.

 

Q6. What is your worst habit?

Nitishika: Always think the worst of myself. I’m my own worst critic, and boy, do I
have high standards!

 

Q7. What is the most expensive thing you own?

Nitishika: My novella collection by BTS. Emotionally, I would say my friends, but
they don’t come with a price tag—thankfully.

 

Q8. Name two person who inspires you, one celebrity and one non-celebrity.

Celebrity: BTS (BTS for their persistence).

 Non-Celebrity: My Mom (for her superhuman patience)

Q10. Do you have any good sleep hacks that you use?

Nitishika: I don’t have any sleep hacks. My body just knows when it’s time to
switch off, like a well-trained machine.

 

Q11. Arrange these in order of your priorities – Money, Love, Fame, Peace, respect?

Nitishika: Respect>Peace>Money>Fame>Love.

 

Q12. What do you think is more worthy of pursuit than wealth?

Nitishika: Being kind. Kindness is free, but it’s the richest gift you can give.

 

Q13. How do you build and maintain long-lasting relationships?

Nitishika: I build and maintain long-lasting relationships by giving each other
space and respecting individual differences. It’s important to allow people to
grow and thrive in their own ways while providing support and
understanding.

 

Q14. What gives you peace in your career as well as in your relationship?

Nitishika: Balance. It’s all about juggling like a circus performer without dropping
the balls.

 

Q15. What is your biggest realization in life so far?

Nitishika: Dreams aren’t as dreamy as I thought they were. They require a lot of
hard work and less sleeping.

 

Q16. If you were given another chance, would you still choose to be born a human?

Nitishika: No. Maybe a cat—so I can nap all day without judgment.

 

Q17. Have you ever experienced any miracle? Please share it.

Nitishika: Yes, meeting Emma in the Wattpad comment section and still being
friends with her. Internet friendships are modern-day miracles. It’s amazing
how a random online interaction can blossom into a deep, lasting
friendship, and I’m grateful for our connection every day.

 

Q18. If you meet God, what would you say to him/her?

Nitishika: What’s preventing you from making more humans? Seriously, we could
use some fresh faces around here—with kindness, patience, and a whole lot
of common sense. It feels like the current batch is running low on those
qualities! .

 

Q19. What is something that blows your mind?

Nitishika: The rapid pace at which things can change blows my mind. Life can
take unexpected turns in an instant, and the constant flux of the world is
both fascinating and humbling.

 

Q20. Give one financial advice that you’ve learned.

Nitishika: Don’t buy something unless you can afford it twice. Trust me, your
wallet will thank you.

 

Q21. One piece of advice that you would like to give your younger self?

Nitishika: Hold on! It’s a wild ride, but you’ll get through it.

 

Q22. What is your favorite Quote?

Nitishika: “You decide what breaks you.”  It’s my daily reminder to stay strong.

 

Q23. Name your favorite book and a movie.

Book: I have read too many books to have a favorite one. Picking a favorite
would be like picking a favorite child—impossible! Each book has impacted
me in different ways, contributing to my growth and understanding of the
world.

Movie: No.

 

Q24. What is your definition of success?

Nitishika: Getting what I gave up my youth for. Success is the payoff for all those sleepless nights.

 

Q25. What is life according to you?

Nitishika: Life is a blank notebook, with each day being a new page waiting to be written. Sometimes it’s a beautifully crafted story, sometimes it’s doodles in
the margins, and other times it’s just a grocery list. But hey, that’s what
makes it interesting!

 

———–Thank You———

Selection Stories

 

She has always exhibited a remarkable ability for self-analysis, showing wisdom beyond her years. Her quirky personality, passion for writing, and obsession with books make her a captivating individual. Her deep self-awareness and unique perspective on life are truly inspiring.

These qualities make her an ideal candidate for our conversation series at abhirah.com. 

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