We often read or write things that don’t really help us —
at least not in the way we hope they will.
And yeah, we’ve all heard those famous lines:
🧿 “Jo likha hai, wahi hoga.”
🌻 “Whatever happens, happens for the best.”
🕊️ “It’s all in God’s hands.”
Comforting? Sure.
Useful? Hmm… maybe sometimes.
But Let’s Be Real
The average human lifespan is about 70–80 years,
and a huge chunk of that is spent trying to control everything:
Habits. Thoughts. Outcomes. Future. Everything.
And guess what?
Most of us fail at it.
All of us, actually.
And If You Don’t Fail?
Then maybe you’ve just built yourself a nicely decorated trap:
Routine → Discipline → Perfection → Burnout.
Sound familiar?
We keep trying to become “better versions” of ourselves,
and the moment something slips —
we drown in regret, overthinking, and stress.
And for what?
💡 Quick Reality Check:
Studies say 90% (or more) of our stress is pointless.
We create it.
We feed it.
We live in it.
So… What’s the Solution?
Should we just give up?
Should we go totally directionless?
Honestly?
That’s an option too.
But —
only if you promise not to complain later when you feel lost.
You can’t float around like a balloon
and then panic when you don’t find the string.
What We Actually Need:
👉 Balance.
🥗 Eat healthy — but don’t cry over a plate of pani puri.
💸 Save money — but if you overspent today, earn again tomorrow.
💔 Got distracted? Welcome to the human club. Try again.
I’ve worked on so many things —
blogs, habits, articles, plans — and most of them?
Felt pointless at some stage.
Even this blog might feel like nonsense later.
But that’s okay.
Because I’ve stopped trying to control everything.
And maybe — just maybe — that’s what gave me peace.
This Isn’t A Motivational Speech 🌿
I’m not here to tell you to change your life.
I just want you to relax a little.
Chase goals — but with joy, not anxiety.
Want success? Sure — but don’t bleed yourself dry for it.
Studies say a little stress helps push us forward.
And it does.
That slight pressure?
It makes your story interesting later.
You’ll have something to say when someone asks:
“How did you do it?”
Just Don’t Carry Stress Like It’s Your Full-Time Job.
In the end…
Eat.
Fail.
Restart.
Waste some money.
Regret it.
Then laugh.
Cry.
🔁 Start again.
Because…
You’re not a machine.
You’re a gloriously chaotic human being.
And that’s more than enough.