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I recently had the opportunity to connect with someone who, besides being an accomplished dentist, also writes about two strangers who meet during the lowest phases of their lives and help each other grow by sharing their life experiences. She sometimes turns their conversations into reels. Her dedication to excelling in such different fields intrigued me, and I have a deep appreciation for individuals who pursue multiple diverse passions with equal commitment. After discovering her work on Instagram, I reached out to her for a conversation, and she graciously agreed.
If even a small part of our discussion resonates with you, that will be a welcomed byproduct of this conversation. So, let’s begin.
Q1. Can you share 2-3 small but significant things that make Mumbai special?
Suyesha:The best thing about this city is the freedom, acceptance and the chill vibe of people. This city feels like home. Also, the weather, absolutely love it.
Q2. What’s your go-to routine for a relaxing off day?
Suyesha: So I usually sleep till 10 or 11 a.m on off days. Then I like to paint or may be go out for a movie with my friends or sister. And then I love to cook so may be cook something special. I am more of an indoor person so I mostly chill at home on off days.
Q3. What are two crucial dental health tips you wish everyone knew?
Suyesha: Very good question!
First – Do visit a dentist at least once a year. In India, people tend to avoid dental health unless it becomes reality painful so don’t wait for that. Prevention is better than cure!
Second – Mostly people are using wrong brushing technique and brush just once a day. So brush twice a day, use mouthwash, floss at least once a day.
Q4. What drives your passion for creating content, and how do you decide on topics?
Suyesha: I love to write. I have always been a dreamer. I am an introvert and I feel like I express myself better in writing. Also, I am emotional, empathetic and I feel emotions deeply. I think words have power so I mostly write on everyday feeling we struggle with and hope that it can make people feel a little less lonely.
Q5. What is your biggest realization so far?
Suyesha: The biggest realization I’ve had lately is that life tends to teach more lessons to people who are kind, which is actually a great thing. This helps us evolve and gain a more wholesome experience. Life isn’t all about happiness; it’s about embracing the full spectrum of emotions. If we’ve experienced heartbreak, grief, and sorrow alongside happiness and peace, then we’ve truly lived a complete life. I have realized that it’s important to embrace all the emotions instead of chasing happiness all the time.
Q6. Can you recommend 2-3 books that have had a profound impact on your life or perspective?
Suyesha: Tuesday with morrie – one of my favourites. I was deeply moved by it.
Metamorphosis – I really didn’t understand the point of it initially but I remember I was howling when I read the end. It moves you in a very different way.
Miracle morning – It kind of helps you to wake up early and makes you realise the importance of a good routine.
It ends with us – this book has been a bit controversial but I loved the ending and the way of storytelling.
That’s it for now.
Q7. How would you explain the harsh realities of the world using a relatable example?
Suyesha: I believe it depends on people’s life experiences. As a naturally positive person, I’m always willing to help others and forgive easily. I’m quite laid-back and don’t get easily upset when people wrong me. However, there are a few things that have deeply affected me in the past: heartbreak, war, and animal cruelty. I have zero tolerance for people responsible for wars, those who engage in animal cruelty, or individuals who think it’s acceptable to toy with someone’s emotions and heart. I simply can’t stand people like that.
Q8. How would you explain the kindness of the world using a relatable example?
Suyesha: A lot of examples I think – there is a police officer in Mumbai, I see him helping stray animals all the time.
Recently in olympic, when one of the sports women was disqualified for being 100 gm overweight, whole india supported her and cheered her up.
Once I was travelling by auto and I was unable to pay through paytm, gpay as my bank servers were down but the driver uncle was so kind. He said it’s fine and didn’t charge me, although I later paid him as I had his number.
So these kind gestures makes you believe in kindness of the world.
Q10. What is your definition of success ?
Suyesha:Earlier, my definition of success was being happy. However, I never equated financial success with success. But lately, I’ve come to realize that it’s impossible to be happy all the time. So, I’ve redefined success as being content. For me, success is now about being content with my life; if I’ve achieved that, then I’m successful.
Q11. What do you think about death?
Suyesha: That it’s the ultimate truth and destination. It really doesn’t scare me.
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